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Sunday, July 18, 2010

The grit behind the glamour or why I why I missed July Blooms Day.


The grit behind the glamour or why I why I missed July Blooms Day.

Yes, from my blog it sounds like a dream job, frequent trips to foreign locales and all.  Like my recent trip to organize and co-conduct a workshop in Barbados. Sounds fab doesn’t it? I had thought so: hotel on the beach with  powder white sands, night swims in the pool, excellent restaurants, visit to the wonderful  Helen of My Rustic Bajan Garden
The grit behind the glamour or why I why I missed July Blooms Day.

Yeah, that and Crazy Woman. I invited Crazy woman, a consultant, on the recommendation of someone.  She received full funding (including ticket and hotel) to attend the workshop. None of this would have happened without me. Crazy woman then proceeded to bad mouth me with various participants, interrupt the presentations constantly to criticize AND then launched a complaint with the implementing agency that the workshop was a waste AND galvanize a couple people to also complain. So I have been busy doing “damage control”, defending ourselves and our presentations.
What could possibly be the motivation here? When I was new to consulting, I attended every local workshop I could get invited to for the specific purpose of learning and networking. A few times I actually paid my airfare and hotel to attend workshops in the US just to meet people!  I’ve wined and dined many a North American and European colleague when they worked in the Caribbean. Sometimes I cooked dinner for them. Introduced them to my garden and pets. These are the things that build relationships and help you get work. I can’t see how going around bad mouthing and trying to discredit persons who helped you and are in a position to help could possibly achieve that.  The only reason could be that there are people who get satisfaction and joy from causing others distress and loss.
Well here are a few blooms; I do have a fun post coming up of the Tea Party at the Rustic Bajan garden
Some first time bloomers: white orchid tree ( as I recall 4 years ago I planted seeds from a pink orchid tree) and yucca.
The grit behind the glamour or why I why I missed July Blooms Day.

The grit behind the glamour or why I why I missed July Blooms Day.
I dont know how I never got such an easy, cheerful flower as portulaca/purslane before
The grit behind the glamour or why I why I missed July Blooms Day.

My cool new bi-color euphorbia milli
The grit behind the glamour or why I why I missed July Blooms Day.
The grit behind the glamour or why I why I missed July Blooms Day.
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The grit behind the glamour or why I why I missed July Blooms Day.


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Saturday, August 28, 2010

Helen had a tea party!

My work trip to Barbados coincided nicely with Helen's Tea Party so I got another wonderful visit to the Bajan Garden

 Helen had a tea party!

Greeted by Monet’s lilies (: and a pack of friendly dogs
Helen had a tea party!
Helen had a tea party!

 I forgot to ask her if her fab toolshed used to be a stable or servant quarters.
Helen had a tea party!

Helen had a tea party!
Helen had a tea party!
All manner of delicious eats and drinks were served-I was so enjoying I forgot to take pics. Helen is a marvelous cook! Here are some of her Irvin mangoes
Helen had a tea party!

Moving on to the garden now...
Helen had a tea party!

My brother admiring a Bismark palm
Below: white musseander
Helen had a tea party!
Helen had a tea party!
Helen had a tea party!
Flamboyant in bloom and vines in the gazebo roof
Helen had a tea party!
Towering traveler's palms
Akee fruit
Helen had a tea party!

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